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I have a couple international trips coming up to countries that I’ve never visited – England and Peru. This got me thinking about Stonehenge and Machu Picchu. I didn’t seek these destinations in order to complete a bucket list. (One trip is for an international meeting and the other is to meet our son who we haven’t seen in person in 10 months.) But this got me thinking about bucket lists and how I keep hearing people talk about sites they want to see before they die. Of course photos usually follow on Facebook to validate their accomplishments.

This is not bad. In fact Jim and I love to travel, meet new people, and experience different cultures. In fact we’ve been to 49 of the 50 States and at least 25 foreign countries. Many of these trips have been to visit our children who each spent time doing volunteer work after college – often in interesting, if not exotic places. (When I’d tell friends that our daughter was in Peace Corps in Mali, and they responded with “How wonderful!” I knew that they probably thought I had said Bali or Maui. :-?) These have always been enriching experiences (except when our car breaks down in the USA or we get sick in India or Africa). Still it got me to thinking about what I want to accomplish before I die.

Stonehenge

Machu Picchu

Should I spend a little extra money, since I’ll be in the country anyway, to go to Stonehenge or Machu Picchu? It would be an experience of communing with history and hopefully understanding ancient cultures and how people lived. It might give me some spiritual insights about life and people. I don’t know yet, whether I will see these places. What I have decided, however, is that if I go, it won’t be to check it off my bucket list. As I disciplined myself to think more deeply about buckets, here’s what I came up with:

7 Items Worth Having on a Bucket List:

  1. Have I made a positive difference in at least one person’s life?
  2. Have I helped someone get an education who might not otherwise be able to?
  3. Have I brought some beauty into someone’s life?
  4. Have I loved my family well?
  5. Have I helped another person live better?
  6. Have I been a good neighbor? (and we all know that our “neighborhood” is the world. This probably extends to being involved in political solutions for the common good.)
  7. Have I loved selflessly and humbly”

In other words, it’s not important what I see or where I go, but have I made a difference. #7 is the most difficult, I think. I’m still working on it.

A question for you – What’s one bucket list action you still want to do? What items might you let go of?

Days 365+58 3 booksCan you ever have too many inspirational books? Yes! Recently I was very proud of myself book-wise. I found 3 fine inspirational books from which I had consumed enough relevant inspiration that I was willing to part with them. I felt even better about finding a good home for them – a local coffee shop that has a small library of meditative type books. I contributed my books. It’s especially satisfying to find just the right home for things I want to give away. I felt virtuous.

But last weekend I was visiting my publisher (Loyola Press) in Chicago and they gave me a gift bag of 8 books. “Here, we’d like you to have copies of the other books that are coming out in the same season as your Blessed by Less book.” How kind and generous. They all look like good reads, but now I have a net gain of 5 books not counting several that have been on my nightstand waiting for attention for too long.

Hmmmm. I’m remembering my own advice about pruning my books in my blog entries starting with Days 295-301 Book Criteria. To summarize,

I gave away:

  • Obsolete text books (that’s almost all of them)
  • Novels (since once I knew the story, I wouldn’t be re-reading them)
  • Most information that I could now pretty easily get online

I kept:

  • Children’s books for reading to visiting kids
  • Feference books that I preferred to have hard copies of for, well, reference
  • Prayer and Inspirational books that I might need for comfort
  • Books I use in my work
  • Foreign phrase/dictionary/guide books
  • Miscellaneous books that I just didn’t want to part with
  • Photo albums

I’m sure I could have been more ruthless with the books but that was my first round of pruning. I figured that after awhile I would probably go back and find more that I really didn’t need especially with more and more being available online.

Arrrgh! And now here I am adding to my book collection instead of subtracting from it. Well, I suppose there are worse vices.

I’m wondering – What kind of books are hardest for you to let go of? What’s easiest? Has the internet or digital books helped? How?

To prove some seeds grew

To prove some seeds grew

I’m leaping from my bedroom – where I mostly look for clothes to give away – to the garden. (Well, not actually “leaping.” I took the stairs.) With the end of the gardening season I was motivated to clean out the small closet in which I kept garden supplies. During Round 1 I had gotten rid of toxic garden chemicals, broken tools, obsolete light bulbs, and work gloves with holes in them. Still, Jim complained that some of my home-made deer repellent was smelling up the closet and it was hard to find space for the broom and mop.

So, I started to dig in and see what was left that could be discarded. The process of taking everything out of the closet and only putting back what I really wanted/needed proved to be cathartic and satisfying. I didn’t end up getting rid of many items but I did have a surprise – SEEDS.

To be discarded

To be discarded

Seeds: I found 52 seed packets; some dating back to 1989 (24 years ago!) Some were empty. I probably just saved them for the directions. But plenty still had seeds in them. In my foolish frugal days I may have thought I’d save seeds for the next year to see if they would still grow – and promptly forgot about them the next year. Apparently, I’m a slow learner since I must have repeated this a number of years. At least now I feel very safe in throwing them all away.

Plant Food: I also found some plant food and dust for roses (I haven’t had any serious roses for about 5 years). I’ll offer this to my neighbors who have roses. I also had Miracid which I used to acidify the soil for the blueberries I transplanted from Michigan about 30 years ago. The blueberries lasted about 5 years. Apparently they need more than acid soil. The Home Orchard Spray will go the way of our dying apple tree.

Deer Repellent: I decided to save most of the deer-repellent since it’s hard to make but I made sure the containers were more secure.

Fungicides: I also found 5 bottles of different kinds of fungicide. I will dispose (responsibly of course) of 4 of these once I find out from my local county extension service if any of these will help me fix a soil fungus problem I suspect I have from squash borers or some other disease that’s been crinkling up my squash and tomato plants.

Ahhh, sometimes it’s hard to be kind to Mother Nature.

Two Things to Ponder –

  1. Gardening and growing some of your own food certainly sounds uplifting, healthy, and virtuous. BUT, it also comes with moral dilemmas like whether or how much to use chemicals? What to do with leftover produce, or worse, leftover insecticides? How do you deal with critters like squirrels, deer, woodchucks, rabbits, etc.? Share your successes and challenges.
  2. Where are the places in your home that may be hiding long forgotten supplies that you don’t need anymore.  I’m curious.
Total give aways

Total give aways
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A magazine, Alive, asked to do an article about my year of giving away and wanted to do a photo. Unfortunately it’s hard to take a photo of what’s no longer in our home. I wondered if we would need to “stage” it to suggest the kinds of things that I gave away but no longer had. Since I had a month to consider this, I put a hold on things I would have normally passed on to others and saved them for the photo. Voila! I was surprised at how many additional things I had collected, just waiting to be given away. The night before the photo I did a new sweep of my clothes closet and hung those items in our basement and added these to the other items I had collected.

This has taught me several things:

  1. I’ve become accustomed to putting stuff in a corner just waiting to collect enough to warrant a give away trip. A habit like this does not end in a year.
  2. Even after two sweeps through my clothes closet, there were still clothes that were not painful to give away. In fact, I can already see that given a little more grieving time, there are even more items that it would not hurt me to lose. If this is true for a person like me who is not particularly a slave to fashion (trust me my daughter will attest to that :-?) then there are a lot more clothes waiting for someone to wear them.
  3. It is a bit embarrassing that I still have so many things to give away. I’m far from done, but sometimes it takes time to be willing to part with clothing I like but hardly ever wear.
  4. It helps that I work at home and the kids are sprung. The active parenting phase of life requires saving a bit more stuff.
Just the clothes

Just the clothes

I’ll comment on the other things I collected for this photo in future blog entries but for this week I’ll just focus on the clothes:

  • 2 dresses
  • 1 suit
  • 1 skirt
  • 2 pairs of slacks
  • 2 blouses
  • 4 jackets
  • 1 white beach cover up that I thought I could wear at a resort of if I ever went on a cruise. Seeing as I’ve never been on a cruise and don’t intend to go on one, it was only fulfilling a fantasy hanging in my closet.

Question: Are you in the stage of life of accumulating clothes for work or in a position where “professional attire” is no longer important? How much of a difference does it make in what clothing you buy and what you keep in your closet?

Days 365+54 NewspaperI’ve finished my “news fast” – week without newspapers, e-news, radio*, or TV (well, not no news but only indirect news gained from other’s comments). When I reconnected with the world I learned that I missed the birth of the royal baby, that Edward Snowden was still holed up in the Moscow airport, and that there was still unrest in Egypt, Syria, Afghanistan, Pakistan, and the US Congress was still stalemated on almost every issue.

SOME THINGS I LEARNED:

  1. It was an easy week: Since I was at a conference for most of one week and hosting our 4-year-old granddaughter the next, this probably wasn’t a true test. I had very little discretionary time during which I would normally read the paper or listen to news. Instead I tried to address issues like how to strengthen marriages, reform our Church, and persuade a 4-year-old that broccoli was tasty and that too many s’mores were not.
  2. What I didn’t miss: Perhaps this was a slow news week but there did not seem to be any late breaking, earth shattering news that I missed. The troubles of the world continued without me knowing the “latest.” Another random week might have been very different – but then someone would have probably alerted me to pay attention.
  3. What I missed was the news analysis that I usually get from NPR, the NYT, and Charlie Rose.
  4. Days 365+42 @ signE-mail: I didn’t miss the interminable email “news” flashes (usually political) asking me to support this cause or that and peppered with requests to support a worthy cause with a donation. By the time the week was over, the urgent Senate vote or “Walk for ??” had passed and it was too late. This gave me a guilt free pass to delete a bunch of emails even though I agreed with the cause.
  5. Days 365 + FacebookFacebook/LinkedIn/Twitter: Although I have a limited connection with these social media, I do occasionally pick up helpful information like links to short inspirational articles or YouTube videos. I also appreciate seeing photos of our kids’ latest exploits or clever remarks. I don’t know if I missed anything important here since it was probably buried by birthday wishes, changing FB profile pictures, and other’s vacation photos. A lot of people wanted to link to, endorse, tweet, or friend me. I’ll never know about those who don’t. It doesn’t impact my life much.
  6. The Weather: Although I don’t have any control over the weather, knowing generally what it will be like, helped us plan when to do the campout with our granddaughter or what kind of clothes to take on my trip. I think checking the weather is a worthy use of news.
  7. Habits: I typically listen to radio news when dressing or in the car. I read the newspaper while eating breakfast or waiting for appointments. I listen to a bit of Charlie Rose at bedtime. When I returned from my conference, I found myself ready to automatically resume some of those habits. It took some self-discipline to continue the “fast.” I wondered what I was missing, but then the urge passed and I realized I was still alive and hadn’t suffered unduly, and indeed got a little more sleep.
  8. nothingSilence: By not turning on the radio or TV, I had a little more silence. This was good. I needed it as a respite from the barrage of “Why do insects bite us? Why can’t I have another story? Why do I have to go to bed?” questions. It was hard enough to find a quiet time for prayer and reflection when traveling or when arranging my schedule around someone else’s needs. These snippets of silence became a refreshing prayer time for me.
  9. What I’ll keep: I think I’ll keep most of the media I interact with since I learn about important developments in my work, the world, and family. I already limit my FB, Twitter, and LinkedIn time to a few minutes a day.
  10. What I’m not sure of or have decided to change:
  • Days 365+31 gmailGmail has just changed its format again (aarrgh!) but this time it’s a help. It now separates out Social and Promotional emails from my primary ones. I think this will help me pay attention to what’s important for work and separate all those solicitations and pleas to contact Congress or give money. (The only problem is that it counts my weekly Marriage Moments and Parenting Pointers as “Social” so I have to go looking for them.)
  • I’ve dropped one national newspaper and plan to drop two magazines that I rarely have time for.
  • Days 365 + TwitterI will stop obsessing about how few Twitter followers I have. Most of what I want to say or know can’t be said in 140 characters anyway. Some of the links are helpful though.
  • I’m still not sure about whether or not to get a Smart Phone. I don’t know if that would simplify my communication/info needs or just make me more of a slave to knowing more and knowing it more quickly.
  • I’m not sure about whether to keep scanning several news digests that I get online. The advantage is that they collect a lot of news on issues that concern me, but it takes time even to scan these.
  • Days 336 Extra - Silly catI will try to have more humor in my life by watching my favorite comedy show and seeing the irony in knowing the latest but not knowing it’s relative importance.
  • Once I know a news event, I will limit how closely I follow all the developing side stories. I don’t really need to know about Anthony Weiner or Eliot Spitzer’s latest dalliance, only that I wouldn’t vote for either.
  • I’ll pray first thing in the morning rather than waiting till I have some time. The “time” seems to slip slide away before I realize it. Whoops, better do that right now.

*Disclosure: I did listen to NPR while on a long drive – to keep me awake of course. 😕

How have you tamed the news and TMI in your life? Pass on your best strategies here.

Days 365+54 NewspaperWe get 3 daily newspapers (Cincinnati Enquirer, New York Times, and the Wall Street Journal), at least 7 magazines, and I’m an NPR junkie. This doesn’t include countless email messages from causes I support. You’d think this would make me an informed citizen. Lately, it has mostly made me discouraged and depressed about the state of life on earth. I know too much!

  1. First there are the global natural disasters (floods, hurricanes, drought, tsunamis, tornados). These are bad but there’s nothing I can do about them. Working on environmental issues to reduce global warming might help some but it’s all very long range and usually far away.
  2. Then there are all the international human-made disasters (conflicts in Syria, Egypt, Turkey, Brazil, the Congos…, building collapses in Bangladesh, human trafficking, curable illnesses that aren’t cured for lack of money or government resistance, terrorism, corruption, economic collapse…) I can be disturbed but most of these are still far away and beyond my ability to help.
  3. Closer to home there is the political dysfunction within the US government. Both parties have strong principles and a desire to win the next election. This means compromise is a dirty word since it might allow the party in power to make progress and thus it will be harder to defeat them in the next election. Addressing all the life issues including abortion, poverty, overuse of fossil fuels, immigration reform, gun control, decent health care and education for all, elimination of the death penalty, racism, violence, prejudice, and all the other isms are at a standstill. It makes me tired just starting this list. I’m involved in some of these issues but they take political pressure from a critical mass of people and a fair amount of money to make a dent in the problems. I have limited time and money, so I choose a few to give my energy to. Watch FrontLines’ Two American Families  by Bill Moyer to get even more informed/depressed.
  4. There’s the even closer problems in my own community and family – ailing friends and schools, relatives who need help, worthy causes that need funding and attention . Here, gathered with my faith community and friends I can potentially make a difference, but it takes time.
  5. Then there’s everything to do with faith and the Church. For all the good that religious institutions do (my own Catholic Church in particular) I also see the underside of scandal, hypocrisy, and fear of losing control.

Fortunately my personal life is pretty stable, but it would only take a family crisis, an illness, an accident, a loss of income, to have my family life trump the 5 above areas on my worry list.

So what to do? Wallow in worry and feeling overwhelmed? That’s not helping anybody. Here are my
5 WAYS TO STAY SANE & BALANCED WHEN I KNOW TOO MUCH:
(The first 4 are the usual suspects. #5 is my personal response to “knowing too much.”

  1. Take care of my own physical and emotional well-being so I can live to help another.
  • Daily walk/exercise (Thank you, Jim, for reminding me and sometimes accompanying me.),
  • Decent nutrition (I still allow myself a few treats like half a Klondike bar for dessert.)
  • Laugh more (I watch the Colbert Report for humor and relaxation.)
  • Gratitude (I write down at least one thing/person that I am grateful for each day.)
  • Others do yoga, swim, exercise, etc.
  1. Ground myself in a spiritual base to keep balanced and have perspective. Morning prayer and a life-giving faith community have been essential parts of this. When I get mad at the Church, I remind myself that WE are the Church and we’re trying to live as Jesus showed us.
  2. Recreate enough. Contra dancing, watching my garden grow, and playing cards with Jim at night are my current preferred forms of recreation. Connecting with our kids, near and far flung, always brings me joy. Friends are an antidote to depression. We can vent to each other and support each other.
  3. Keep my work and volunteer commitments manageable. Assuming that most of us work enough, perhaps too much, the challenge for our culture’s multi-tasking, over achieving lifestyle is to achieve a family/work/personal life balance. (See To Do Lists in my previous post.) One friend just gave me a gag gift saying “Stop me before I volunteer again.” I’m about to resign from one long term commitment.
  4. Limit the amount of news I consume. This will be a new endeavor for me, and a hard one.  I’m going to experiment with consuming less news – at least repetitive news. I will be traveling for almost a week soon and will conclude with a visit our granddaughter visiting for a week. I think this might be a good time to try a “news fast.” My plan is to not read the paper or email news stories for a week. I’ll only listen to NPR when driving by myself in the car (to keep me company and awake). At the end of the week, I will check in with a news hound and find out if I missed anything that a quick summary couldn’t provide. I will be watching for negative withdrawal signs or increased personal calm. We’ll see what happens. If you try this too, let me know what you’ve learned.

Days 365+53 To Do ListI still have plenty of things to give away in our home but I’m feeling more burdened by my “To Do List” than my stuff these days. So this blog is focused on TIME. How we use it and how we can be a slave to it like the proverbial wheel running hamster.

I go to bed wondering how I’m going to keep all my commitments by their deadlines. I find myself thinking, I’ll feel freer, happier, less stressed once I finish this project, those emails, that report. I thought things would slow down once I finished my upcoming book (Blessed by Less). It hasn’t. Stuff just got pushed to later.

Theoretically I know the answer lies in prioritizing, delegating, and being humble enough to remember that I don’t have to save the world. Still, I like to think of myself as responsible. I pray and that helps me remember that my worth does not depend on how much I accomplish. But still…God rested. I must too.

I think of refugees, people who have debilitating diseases, people who experience disasters like fires or floods. They are forced to focus on what’s really important. Besides they probably have lost their To Do List in their disaster – unless of course it’s backed up in the cloud somewhere. 😕

Please share with me and other recovering work-aholics how you let go of too heavy a list of tasks or being over-responsible.

PS: I do feel a little better now that I’ve crossed “Do semi-monthly blog” off my list of things to do. Hope you’re smiling.

Continuing my June 1 blog’s issue about how to donate rather elegant/expensive clothing, I now turn to the opposite extreme – what about donating rather substandard items? It’s virtuous to clear out the stuff that’s cluttering our home and simplify our material possessions. This helps us find things more easily, makes for a cleaner environment, and provides other people with stuff they need but you no longer need. BUT, are there ethics for handing down used clothing. Is it fair to give someone else worn jeans that aren’t good enough for me?  Earth 911 can give you some guidance.

dollar signSometimes, however, my hand-me downs are not what another person needs most. They might need training, an education, food – stuff that I can’t just pass on to Goodwill. Sometimes money can do the most good and do it most efficiently. But everybody’s got their hand out. How do we make decisions about donating our money to causes that will do the most good. To make a plan that will help you make these decisions check out my friend, Gene Gardner’s, outline for Donating With Confidence.

Micah sorting his money

Micah sorting his money

Days 365+52 Micah's $ w envelope

But what about our kids? They usually don’t have enough money saved to really make a difference. Read an inspirational story about what one of our God children, Micah, decided to do to save the world when he was six. You’re never too young.

Days 365+51 coat w fur

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The S’s are pretty much finished so I’ll tell you about this lovely warm (and rather expensive) fur lined coat that I decided to give away. I actually gave it away last February because I wanted someone to be able to use it while it was still cold out. I decided not to post it then, however, because it didn’t begin with “S” and would interrupt my Waste-Less Lent posts. (I know, I know, I can be rather OCD about these kinds of things.)

The story behind the coat is that it was handed down to me by a relative many years ago. It wasn’t particularly my style but it was of such high quality that I kept it. When I finally decided to let it go, I toyed with the idea of giving it to an upscale consignment shop. I might get a little money for it and it would probably be bought by a person who would appreciate its value.

I then realized how judgmental that attitude was and recognized that the person who would most appreciate it was someone who was cold. I decided to take it to a friend who works at Mercy Neighborhood Ministries and asked her to pass it on to a client who needed it. Low income people need nice things too.

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You’ll seldom find me wearing a sheet but I decided to make a departure from giving away clothes and jump to sheets because I store them close to my clothes closet – and most importantly, they begin with “S.” (I love consistency. :-?) Besides, my linen closet was pretty stuffed with sheets.

On occasion, we’ve slept 14 people in our house, but some brought their own bedding. Currently we have:

  • 5 “proper” beds
  • 3 floor mattresses that could make comfortable enough beds
  • 2 couches that could serve for sleeping in a pinch

Even after allowing for two sets of sheets for each proper bed and mattress, I determined that I had 16 extra sheets and 10 extra pillow cases than I needed. This is a give-away that I can feel good about since bedding is a common need for low income people.

Disclaimer: As terrible as it may sound to have accumulated 17 extra sheets, remember my rant last year about manufacturers changing the depth of mattresses in order to not only sell more mattresses but also sell more sheets to fit the new size. Well, several alert and generous readers gave me their older sheets that would fit my older (but still good and “right sized for sitting) mattress. This is how I got some of my surplus sheets. So there!

Days 365+49 2 more skirtsWith my days of measuring garbage behind me, I can finally get back to the S’s. I found one more skirt that I missed several weeks ago and am totally willing to give it away now. It did look rather lonely, however, and produced only a rather drab photo to simply give away one powder blue skirt. I decided to scout my closet for a companion since I still had 17 skirts. (Oh dear, even mentioning that many in my blog feels like a guilty confession.) It was hard. Most of the skirts I wear at least several times a year. I did find one skirt that I like and fits, but I probably haven’t worn in 10 years. This brought on even more guilt. I decided to let it go. I may wear it one more time just as a way to say goodbye.

Now that I’m on my second round of give-aways, noting what I didn’t give away the first time (and reading about people who prune their wardrobe to 33 items – not counting underwear), I realize that I still have room for improvement. It’s humbling to think that I had 17 skirts and probably only wear about 10 often. Still, I am reluctant to give  all the surplus away at once. Sometimes I think we have to do this in stages but keep moving in the right direction of keeping less. I keep reminding myself that there are people in my community who need decent work wardrobes now and don’t have the luxury of 17 skirts to choose from. Working at home should keep my career clothes wardrobe at a minimum, but it’s harder than I expected to let go.

Our daughter, who is about to move to her third foreign country in six years, has an advantage. Each time she moves she is faced with the decision about which clothes she loves enough to take them to the new country. Of course we still have some of her clothes stored in a closet at our home. 😕

How many skirts or slacks do you think a conscientious down-sizer should have? How many do you have?

Days 365+48h Easter wasteRejoice! Easter is here and I no longer have to measure trash. Of course Easter is first and foremost about the resurrection of Jesus and the hope that gives the world. I don’t want to in any way trivialize this holiest of days. Still, my practical Lenten sacrifice side reminds me that I no longer have to sort through my garbage and separate the recyclables from the trash. I will continue to recycle and compost, but digging through this stuff and composing it for a photo has been a pain. Following are some things I’ve learned:

  1. The impact – Even though I was able to reduce the amount of garbage I produced during Lent, this was miniscule in terms of making an appreciable dent in reducing the overall human contribution to landfills.
  2. Consciousness Raising – Probably the most important value of this experience was the increased awareness I now have for how I buy and dispose of material goods. I learned a lot more about what is recyclable, compostable, and terracyclable thus increasing the likelihood that I will use this knowledge in the future. I also am looking at the things I buy more carefully. Is it something I really need? How long will it last? How is it packaged? This is changing how much I buy and what it is packaged in.
  3. Habit Forming – Recycling can be enhanced by setting up a system and developing a habit. Once I had made a container for my terracycling stuff, it became easy just to put the appropriate stuff in it. Once I learned some finer points of how much in my ordinary garbage was recyclable and what was compostable, I got in the habit of putting it in the assigned place. Once I got in the habit of taking a small bag with me on walks, it became a habit to pick up bottles and cans. In fact, when away from home I started noticing plastic bottles in other neighborhoods and felt a pang of guilt that I wasn’t in a position to pick them up.
  4. Recycling Etiquette – It was hard for me not to rescue recyclables from under neighbors’ bushes or to refrain from commenting on others’ lack of recycling when visiting. With my increased awareness, it became an etiquette dilemma. Does one overlook the fact that another household does not recycle something that I know could easily be done? Does that violate good manners and become over-responsible? Or is it proper to “educate” another about what they could recycle or buy differently – like suggesting that someone not buy bottled water.
  5. Days 365+48h Easter waste w footA Game or Game Changing? – I admit that in many ways these six weeks of reducing my waste was like a game for me. It was a challenge to see how low I could go. I also admit that I bordered on cheating a few times like when I turned a blind eye to a Styrofoam cup on my neighbor’s lawn because it would have increased the level of my garbage that week. I also let my husband buy me a dress I coveted. It came with no packaging but did I absolutely need it? No. My compulsive side sometimes went to extremes to avoid adding 1/8th of an inch to my trash level. Does stomping down the trash to make it look like less really change how much I threw away? Indeed, it was part game, but it was also game changing in that it changed me. I became more informed and now see recycling opportunities where I didn’t before. I’m more careful about what I buy and what it’s packaged in.
  6. Any Spiritual Growth? One of the tenets of Catholic Social teaching is Care for God’s Creation, and certainly I grew in implementing that. However, I think the more important spiritual growth that took place in me over these six weeks is what I have come to call the “Smug Factor.” I’ve long known that I should tame my pride. Not the good kind of pride that urges me to do my best work, but the vice kind of pride that prompts me to want to appear better than others. Facing my temptations to cheat – even in an artificial contest with myself – punctured my pride. Digging through garbage taught me respect for those who do this to survive. Letting go of the goal of perfect recycling and no waste was humbling. Trying not to judge others when their lifestyle decisions differed from mine was an important lesson.
5 weeks in can 6th week in clear jar

5 weeks in white bucket
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Wait, wait, let me explain. I know it looks like I’m really back sliding this week but here’s the back story. We had 12 guests stay with us over the weekend for the Pig Town Fling contradance. Actually our friends are very conscientious about the environment and make very little waste. But 12 extra people making very little waste still adds up. As you can see, I couldn’t fit it all in my see through jar. The big culprit was that one person had gone out for dinner and brought home his leftovers in a styrofoam “doggie container.” I’m sure he didn’t have much choice other than to waste the food. That’s what took up most of the space. Extra cans, beer bottles, oyster tins, and other paraphernalia were mostly recyclable or compostable. Several people brought their own bedding. All brought snacks. It was an easy group to host.

Stuff-nothingMy goal this week was to focus on pre-cycling. The problem is that NOT buying stuff doesn’t make for a very interesting photo. Just so you know, we bought some food for our guests but I didn’t buy convenience foods. Conveniently, I have a husband who doesn’t mind cooking from scratch. I got my sewing machine fixed which will help me mend some clothes and avoid buying more. I didn’t buy those Papas Easter eggs (but I might go back and get a couple of my favorites later :-?) I didn’t buy some fancy paper that I had considered getting.

Progress? (Week 5 is in the jar)

Progress?
(Week 5 is in the jar)

As I mentioned in Week #1, much of what a person can put out for curbside recycling varies from town to town. We found that our city (Covington, KY) takes all plastics labeled #1 – #7. Cincinnati, OH (15 minutes away) does not take #5 and #7. BUT, they do have a school that does terracycling.

So, what is terracycling? No it isn’t a new form of bicycling but rather a an opportunity to recycle materials that often are not acceptable in traditional city recycling programs. TerraCycle is a private U.S. small business headquartered in Trenton, NJ. It specializes in making consumer products from pre- and post-consumer materials, which is often called upcycling, or reusing waste materials that are otherwise difficult to recycle.

TerraCycle arranges with local schools and non-profits to collect items like candy wrappers, snack bags, cereal box liners, wax paper, pens, markers, glue bottles, and toiletries like tooth paste, deodorant, and beauty products. In exchange, the school receives money from TerraCycle, It’s both a benefit to the environment and the school.

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In the Cincinnati area there are several non-profit organizations that offer TerraCycling. One that offers a broad spectrum of recyclable items is Pleasant Ridge Montessori, Click here to see a full description with photos of what can be dropped off.

So… what that means for me is that my Cincinnati friends and I trade garbage. They bring me their #5 & #7 plastics and I take items that can be terracycled to them. Pictured here are the terracycle items that I’ve collected since the beginning of Lent: (reading from left to right and top to bottom) snack bags, snack wrappers, candy wrappers, wax box liners, usable shoes, pens, zip lock bags, and toiletries. This hasn’t made a big dent in my garbage level (except for the shoes) but it has made me feel better about not wasting these items by adding them to a landfill. (Note the liturgically correct purple background. 🙂

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Bottled water is my nemesis. I avoid it unless I’m in a 3rd world country or camping without access to clean water. Thus I was discouraged to attend a recent non-profit dinner that only had bottled water. I decided to put water from the water fountain in the Styrofoam cup meant for coffee. I then complained to the person sitting next to me about the bottled water. My friend gently pointed out that Styrofoam is not recyclable at all while the plastic bottles were. She was right and I felt duly humbled but not satisfied.

I decided to talk with one of the organizers and offer to bring several pitchers for water the next week and fill them up at the site. As a bonus I brought recyclable cups. The effort this took was minimal since I already had the supplies at home. Mostly I had to remember to do it and put a towel around the pitchers so they wouldn’t break. SUCCESS! I then took the plastic cups home and washed them in the dishwasher. It’s a small thing and won’t make a big dent in global warming, but I hope that the consciousness raising will multiply my efforts. Now I just have to work on not being too proud or self-congratulatory. So, remember the lesson, but forget that it started with me. 😕

Ho Hum: The rest of the week was pretty boring as far as creating waste. I think we created a little less waste at home by looking at my red capped jar, but maybe I’m just getting better at arranging my waste. As I did the dirty, messy work of checking through our garbage to make sure Jim had not put anything in that could really be recycled or terracycled, I thought of you all. I thought of how I’m picking through garbage and measuring it so you don’t have to. If I wasn’t blogging on this and taking photos I would just put it in the outside trash can and forget about it. The result would be the same. Bottom line, this is mostly about raising my awareness and learning recycling habits for the future. So, learn from my experience.Days 365+48e Week 5 waste

Who is winning? As I look around our neighborhood and remember our days of active parenting my pride in reducing our waste is balanced by realizing that there’s only two of us. It would be a lot harder if we still had children at home. I did, however, notice that someone in our household had put several pieces of facial tissue in the garbage. It squishes down pretty small but still…I’ve switched to a handkerchief!

Days 365+48d Jim w chair padOh oh. I got worried this week when Jim replaced his 3’x4’ chair mat. The old one had a hole in it and would never fit into my 1’x4” red capped container. After a bit of research I found that the chair pad was 100% vinyl PVC recycling number 3 and the manufacturer said it was recyclable. To verify this I called my city’s recycling manager who confirmed that it could be put out with our curbside recycling. That’s a relief. I know that this Waste-Less Lent is an artificial project, but I’m really aiming to keep my weekly trash small enough so that it can fit in my red cap container.

Lesson: One of the things I’m learning is that wasting less can take a fair amount of research and that takes time. Most of my research has started online but I usually find that I get the clearest and quickest answer when I can call a company on the phone. Of course finding a phone number for a national company from their website can take longer than the call. I guess this is one of the reasons that doing a project like this for a period of time like the six weeks of Lent makes sense. I probably wouldn’t go to the trouble to do the research on a regular basis, but knowing it’s for a time-limited stretch gives me the motivation. Since the recycling research only has to be done once for the household items that I’m uncertain about means that after Lent I will have built up a pool of information that I can continue to use.Days 365=8d Week 4 waste

The white waste bucket photo continues to grow. 2 week’s worth are in the white can while Week 3’s garbage is in the red capped container. Looks like I’m not going to fit all 6 weeks of garbage in my white waste basket. Maybe, I’ll have to stomp it down. 🙂  (The ruler and Jim’s hand are for perspective.)

Days 365+48c Week 3 wastePerhaps it is wishful thinking but I do believe that we created less waste this second week of Lent than we did the first week. This may be due to us learning more about what we can recycle, the fact that Jim was away for 3 days, or maybe we’re just wasting less. My photo marks the level of unrecyclable garbage from Week 1. The clear jar with the red lid shows what I collected during Week 2. It may look the same but I didn’t have to squish the garbage down this week to put the lid on. (The red ruler is there to give perspective.)

Several ways that trying to Waste-Less impacted my life this week were:

  1. Pizza: I knew that a pizza box could be recycled with paper as long as it didn’t have food residue on it. While Jim was away, my son and I went out for pizza one night. There was one piece of pizza left so I asked for a box. I carefully put the slice on the wax paper liner in the box and cautiously drove home so as not to jostle it. SUCCESS. I got home and nary a smudge was on the box so I put it in recycling guilt free. The more I’m becoming conscious of pre-cycling, however, it occurred to me that I wouldn’t even have needed the box if I had just consumed the last piece at the restaurant. Oh dear, I think I’m over-thinking this stuff.
  2. Days 365+48c BoraxDryer sheets: Today was laundry day. I was about to toss a fabric softener sheet into the dryer with the first load when I remembered they are not recyclable, terracyclable, or compostable. The sheets are so thin I knew that it wouldn’t raise the level of my garbage container, but I decided this was an opportunity for research. I googled alternatives and found out about Borax, white vinegar, magic balls, and tennis balls. I decided to do an experiment.
  • Load #1 was my control: I used no fabric softener in the washer or dryer. Result: worked just fine for cotton underwear. No static and clothes were soft.
  • Load #2: I added ½ cup Borax to the rinse cycle. (This was because I didn’t find this trick till the washer was just starting the rinse cycle. Result: worked fine on my colored wash (mostly cotton) but some synthetic socks had a lot of static and Jim’s 100% cotton slacks would need ironing if I were picky. (The Borax did get a stubborn stain out that my detergent wouldn’t touch.)
  • Load #3: I put the ½ cup Borax in the beginning of the wash with my detergent. This was a permanent press load of delicate synthetics. Result: lots of static cling – I presume because of the different fabric.
  • Load #4: I used no Borax but put two tennis balls in the dryer. (This is supposed to help soften the clothes and prevent static cling. Result: the balls made some noise and may have reduced the wrinkles on the cotton slacks slightly but not quite enough. (Jim said that even with the dryer sheets he has to iron these slacks.)
  • Conclusion: I can probably just skip the dryer sheets except when doing a load having a lot of synthetic fabrics. PS: When washing sheets I hang them outside on the line to dry. So there –  you purists who were about to criticize me for using the dryer at all!
  1. Facial tissue: I learned that technically used facial tissue is compostable but you might want to consider what gunk you used it to clean and whether you want that in your compost. I’m going to start carrying a handkerchief. Clean facial tissue is recyclable, but if it’s clean why are you not using it?

Although Jim usually does the grocery shopping we both went this time to make joint decisions and so I could take some photos.

10 NEW THINGS I LEARNED ABOUT PACKAGING & GROCERIES

  1. Girl Scout Cookies: Upon entering the store we were met by several Girl Scout cookie sellers. The packaging around the cookies couldn’t be avoided but it seemed almost immoral not to support the Girl Scouts. We took one for the team.
  2. Lettuce: Jim, a super-conscientious consumer, thought ahead and brought some of our used plastic bread bags to put the head lettuce in. You gotta love this guy. SUCCESS
  3. Days 365+48b Jim w carrotsCarrots: He started to buy the bagged carrots because he said they’re usually cheaper than the loose ones. Upon closer examination, however, we discovered that this time they were the same price so we put the carrots in another plastic bag from home. SUCCESS
  4. Apples and other loose fruit: We bought some individual apples and bananas despite knowing that those tiny oval labels on them are not recyclable. They’re so small, I’m not worrying about it. (I’m trying not to be OCD about this.) We made an exception for a bunch of apples bagged in plastic netting. It’s not recyclable but since we make our own applesauce I figure this balanced out the jars or cans we might have bought. MIXED
  5. Days 365+48b bottled water aisleApple slices & Water. FYI they sell apples already sliced in small plastic bags. I was horrified. Are people so lazy that they can’t even bite their own apple or slice it themselves? In this same vein, I’ve long had a crusade against unncessary bottled water. This aisle of bottled water just made me sad. We didn’t buy apple slices or water but just gawked. DISTRESS
  6. Orange Juice: We drink a lot of OJ – usually the concentrate packaged in cardboard cans. We recycle the lids and plastic tear off strip. After a call to Minute Maid this morning, however, I found that the coated cardboard container is not recyclable. I was tempted to switch to the plastic jugs because I could recycle them but decided that the petroleum used to make the jugs plus the extra weight to transport them probably outweighed the tradeoff. MIXED
  7. Days 365+48b mushroomsMushrooms: We found two packages of mushrooms for the same price. One was packaged in recyclable cardboard, the other wasn’t. I thought we should buy the recyclable one, but Jim, sharp shopper that he is, said that the mushrooms in the plastic container were clearly fresher. Complex choices. We got the fresher ones. DISAPPOINTMENT
  8. Meat: It’s pretty hard to buy fresh meat without it being packaged in Styrofoam. We bought some chicken and sausages. The purists would say if we were vegetarian we wouldn’t have to compromise on this. I’m not that pure yet. DISAPPOINTMENT
  9. Milk: We usually buy organic milk that comes in a waxed cardboard carton. After talking with our city recycling manager, I was delighted to learn that Covington accepts cartons like this. SUCCESS
  10. Home again, home again  jiggety-jig.

    Home again, home again
    jiggety-jig.

    Spices: We bought a can of pepper corns. The can be recycled but we realized that it would be cheaper and less packaging to buy spices at a health food store but that would take extra gas and time to drive there. MIXED

We bought other things too but the packaging was generally not an issue since it was basically cans or recyclable plastic. In a perfect world we would even reduce our use of recyclable containers, thus pre-cycling. We’re not perfect yet.

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1 wk’s trash in red lid jar
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Well, it’s been one week of watching my waste. The biggest challenge was grocery shopping since we need food and often the packaging can’t be avoided.  I’ll chronicle what we learned from grocery shopping tomorrow. Today, I’m focusing on measuring our garbage and learning a lot about what we can and cannot recycle/compost in my city of Covington, KY. I thought I knew a lot about this already, but the goal of keeping my garbage small motivated me to learn even more.

10 NEW THINGS I LEARNED ABOUT RECYCLING:

  1. It depends on your city or county. I found that the city of Covington has a robust recycling effort and accepts a number of things that our neighbor across the river, Cincinnati, does not. This made me happy for myself but heightened my awareness of the complexity of giving recycling advice. When searching online, I realized that recycling criteria vary from city to city, or county to county. You have to call your public works dept. to get local criteria.
  2. Terracycling: The good news for Cincinnati, however, is that it does have several “terracyle” centers which recycle things like candy wrappers, snack bags, drink pouches, squeezable fruit, glue, plastic cups, cereal bags, and more. Since we have friends in Cincinnati we now trade garbage. They bring their #5 and #7’s to us and we take our terracycle items to them when we see each other.
  3. Receipts: Most cash register receipts now use thermal paper which should not be recycled. Many recycling sources I checked, however, said that this is such a small percentage of their paper recycling that they aren’t super strict about it. It does, however, reduce the quality of the recycled paper made from it and the chemicals used to produce the paper are not friendly.
  4. Plastic credit/gift cards: Our daughter who lives in Afghanistan left a couple old library cards with us. I wondered if they were recyclable. NO, EXCEPT there is a place in Bedford, OH called Earthworks that recycles these plastic cards. Of course you want to make sure your identity has been obliterated. I used to use a credit card to break into my own locked car or open a locked door. It’s probably good that this kind of re-purposing no longer works.
  5. Lids: bottle caps (metal or plastic) are now recyclable in most places, but I wasn’t sure about jar lids. I was happy to learn that Covington accepted glass jar lids. Take them off the jar or bottle before recycling.
  6. Paper labels on cans or plastic: Even though I knew that one didn’t have to peel/scrape the paper off containers before putting them in recycling, it made me feel better to do it – the pristine look of a clear bottle or jar was appealing to me. I’d just let the bottle soak in the sink for awhile to get it off. Now that I’m compulsively measuring my waste, however, I decided to let it stay on since that’s one less piece of garbage to put in the trash can.
  7. Other Labels: Unfortunately, most of my research indicated that those sticky labels (like name tags or that are on plastic film) are not recyclable.
  8. Paper towels: I didn’t think that paper towels could be recycled but they CAN be COMPOSTED. This is good news since we have a low maintenance compost pile behind our garage. Just make sure they don’t have chemical residue on them. Mini confession: Before I knew this I had been avoiding using paper towels this Lent and instead used cloth rags to wipe up spills. This isn’t a bad idea because I have plenty of rags and I’d just include them with my regular wash so it didn’t take any extra washing. I did, however, go a little over the top when I saw a bug in the kitchen and wanted to squish it with a smidgen of paper towel but didn’t want to add it to my trash container. I thus carefully picked up the bug and threw it outside. I’m not sure it this is virtue or foolishness.
  9. Dryer sheets and lint: Dryer sheets are not recyclable but dryer lint is compostable. Aren’t you glad you know that?
  10. Is it cheating? I admit that this Lenten “Waste-Less” project of mine is partly a game. It’s like a competition with myself to see how small I can keep the level of my trash each week. Is it cheating to squish the stuff down (like in a compactor) so it looks like less? I did that.

Want more: There are many websites which give more detail about recycling. Earth 911 is a good one. When I wasn’t sure about something I simply googled “Can I recycle ______” and usually came up with quick answers. Again check with your county municipality for local requirements.

Days 365+48 waste basketsI interrupt this story of giving-away “S’s” because Lent has just started again and I have a new plan. In 2010 and 2011, I was giving things away. In 2012, I ate on $4.50/day. This Lent I’ve decided to waste less. It’s my attempt to create less trash as a way to honor God’s creation and decrease how much garbage I heap on the earth. I’ve been thinking about this for awhile and am not sure how well I will do or if it will made any difference. After all, Jim and I are just two people in a world of  7 billion (give or take a couple people). Besides, we already recycle glass, plastic, cans and a whole bunch of stuff that we give away. We take reusable cloth bags when shopping and do a simplified form of composting. We’ve even downsized our garbage can. Can we do much more? We’ll see.

My plan is twofold:

  1. Recycle more vigilantly by learning what additional things might be recycled and where to take them.
  2. Pre-cycle by trying to buy less packaging that would need to later be discarded.

Each week I will measure how much garbage I’ve created and see how low I can go.

In thinking this through I thought I’d need some rules to avoid becoming overly compulsive or stinking up the house. Therefore:

I won’t count as garbage:

  1. Anything that I will recycle (paper, plastic bags, plastic containers, glass, cans…)
  2. Anything that goes into the compost pile or down the disposal.
  3. Anything that goes down the toilet. (Although when I spent time in Southeast Asia and Africa I learned that some cultures don’t use toilet paper, I’m not going to that degree of “purity.”)

I will count:

  1.  Anything that I would normally put in the weekly garbage collection (Although I plan to save my treasured waste in see-through containers, at least for the first few weeks, so I can measure it.)

I suspect that the hardest part of this will be grocery shopping where it’s hard to avoid pre-packaged food. What will we do about milk? The organic milk we usually buy only comes in waxed cartons. Can those be recycled? I’ll have to find out. Anybody know?

Cheating: I’ve already caught myself cheating. Since I knew I was going to start on Ash Wednesday, I made sure that I put several larger non-recyclables in last Monday’s pick-up so it wouldn’t count. I’m justifying this as sort of a Mardi Gras splurge before Lent.